Dear Sis, There comes a time in every woman's life when she feels like she's just wading. You know -- not moving forward or going backward -- not swimming full force or drowning -- just kinda staying afloat. Nothing's really wrong... we achieve the day to day functions of life without hesitation, we have all the things we need and most of what we want -- but for some reason, the daily process of it all feels a bit lackluster. Our spark is gone and we've run out of fuel. I cal

Dear sis, Raise your hand if you've heard folks talk trash about millennials. Yep --- I've heard it too. Every other day, someone is pegging us as the "generation of instant gratification", and in many cases I can't blame them, because their observation is true! I don't know if it's a generational thing, or if it's just the world we live in. But I'll be the first to admit that patience is not my virtue. In fact, I hate waiting! I love my white chocolate mochas and all, but If

Dear Sis, You must know by now I'm an old soul. Not the "in-bed-by-8-o'clock" type... the nurturing type, who spoils all your children. I'm proud to say my wise, yet warm demeanor has earned me about a dozen babies -- none of whom I gave birth to. My youngest is still baking in her mommy's belly... but, my oldest is in her twenties! And, yes she is very-much-so my child! Jaz and I met about 6 years ago when I was working for the ABC affiliate in Charleston, SC. It was her fir

Dear sis, I’m a lover of all things music. Old school, new school — Hip hip, Gospel and R&B... I love it all! Especially the classics. One of my all time favorites is "Man in the Mirror" by Michael Jackson. “I'm starting with the man in the mirror... I'm asking him to change his ways" I’ve been singing those words forever, but only recently took the time to dissect what they mean. Well, earlier this week a friend posted a quote that put MJ’s words into perspective: “Be